Wednesday, September 28, 2011
Saturday, September 24, 2011
When in doubt, check them out!
If there is no "joe blow" living in (insert town he said he lived in) that has no child named (insert name) you will have to face the reality that they are lying to you. If they said they are single but are showing up as married and NOT divorced, same thing. Don't you owe it to yourself to find out the truth? You owe more to yourself than this new person who entered your life. Play it smart, and lessen the risk of getting played.
Barry Wales with his Daughter --- yeah right
READER: why did u buzz me
READER: if you arent going to talk
barrywales01: Sweetie am here
READER: me too
barrywales01: So what's up?
READER: as innnnnn....??
barrywales01: In helping me baby.
barrywales01: Just in case you change your mind baby and want too here is the info and you also have my cell.
READER: I admire your tenacity for working me and not giving up
READER: what info
barrywales01: The Dr's info.
barrywales01: Name: Blessed Garba
Address: 23 unity rd
READER: that looks like the building's name
READER: who is the physician and your daughter's full name and room number
READER: you told me you sold "stuffs" to pay for this.
READER: now u needed money for the car shipping or something
READER: i am confused
barrywales01: I only paid for more oxygen and not the sugery.
barrywales01: I don't have it yet and the dr will help me get the money so i could get the car's and makse sure everything is fixed so i can get home to you.
barrywales01: So what now?
READER: I have nothing to summate at this point. I guess my writing up there was a waste of time. But I thought it was pretty clearly executed.. I also asked for some proof you live in NY... and why wouldnt you have the physician's name......
READER: I am kinda insulted about all this
READER: your accent is Nigerian
READER: first and foremost
READER: I have a pretty good idea how this came to be dumped in my lap but I can't prove it so I will keep my thoughts to myself
barrywales01: Just don your part and leave the rest to me ok.
barrywales01: I need to get to bed now.
READER: good night
barrywales01: Please don't let me down oka.
barrywales01: Kisses and Hugs.
HERE IS THEIR INSTANT MESSAGE SESSION:
This guy is 23 years-old, single, and his real name is Ikechukwa Isaacs
Barry Wales (7/7/2011 11:04:32 AM): Yeah she is in the hospital now and they dr said she needs to under-go a surgery but i need to pay for the bills before they can get on with treatment and i ask if i could pay the little i had until i get my check but they refuse.
Barry Wales (7/7/2011 11:08:52 AM): I better get back to the hospital now.
READER (7/7/2011 5:43:45 PM): Hello Barry
READER (7/7/2011 5:44:00 PM): Hows your daughter
Barry Wales (7/7/2011 5:45:42 PM): I'm really bad they won't get on with the surgery until i have the money.
READER (7/7/2011 5:46:29 PM): sorry to hear that
READER (7/7/2011 5:46:43 PM): i hope you get it from your business soon
READER (7/7/2011 5:47:06 PM): that issss why you are over there, isnt it?
Barry Wales (7/7/2011 5:47:47 PM): Yeah but haven't gotten my pay check yet.
READER (7/7/2011 5:48:43 PM): maybe somneone in NY can help u
Barry Wales (7/7/2011 5:49:55 PM): I have called my friends and nothing.
READER (7/7/2011 5:51:05 PM): sorry to hear that
Barry Wales (7/7/2011 5:51:37 PM): Thanks READER.
Barry Wales (7/7/2011 5:51:47 PM): I don't want to lose my daughter.
READER (7/7/2011 5:53:02 PM): im sure you dont
READER (7/7/2011 5:53:22 PM): you wouldnt have that shit if you were in NY
READER (7/7/2011 5:53:35 PM): certain hospitals have to take us
READER (7/7/2011 5:53:40 PM): money or no money
READER (7/7/2011 5:53:45 PM): at least for now anyway
Barry Wales (7/7/2011 5:53:52 PM): You are right READER.
Barry Wales (7/7/2011 5:55:30 PM): I feeling like i am going to lose my little girl.
READER (7/7/2011 5:56:12 PM): i pray not
Barry Wales (7/7/2011 5:56:22 PM): Me too.
Barry Wales (7/7/2011 6:21:13 PM): I understand.
READER (7/7/2011 6:21:24 PM): but this is not the first time someone comes on and talks to me and then all of a sudden has a crisis
Barry Wales (7/9/2011 12:16:33 AM): READER that means you are not helping just say a yes or no.
Barry Wales (7/9/2011 10:30:32 PM): I'm sorry READER i knew that,that's why i just decided to stop bugging i want all this to be over so we can be together and you will know i true want you.
Barry Wales (7/9/2011 10:34:36 PM): I don't know what else to do.
Barry Wales (7/9/2011 10:37:58 PM): And i don't have anyone right now but you.
READER (7/10/2011 12:00:21 AM): brb.. gotta let my dog back inside
READER (7/10/2011 12:02:55 AM): why did u buzz me
READER (7/10/2011 12:03:03 AM): if you arent going to talk
Barry Wales (7/10/2011 12:11:29 AM): Sweetie am here
READER (7/10/2011 12:12:56 AM): me too
Barry Wales (7/10/2011 12:13:29 AM): So what's up?
READER (7/10/2011 12:13:52 AM): as innnnnn....??
Barry Wales (7/10/2011 12:14:54 AM): In helping me baby.
Barry Wales (7/10/2011 12:17:11 AM): Just in case you change your mind baby and want too here is the info and you also have my cell.
READER (7/10/2011 12:17:21 AM): I admire your tenacity for working me and not giving up
READER (7/10/2011 12:17:30 AM): what info
Barry Wales (7/10/2011 12:17:49 AM): The Dr's info.
Barry Wales (7/10/2011 12:17:55 AM): Name: Blessed Garba Address: 23 unity rd City: Ikeja State: Lagos Country: Nigeria Zipcode: 23401
READER (7/10/2011 12:18:41 AM): that looks like the building's name
READER (7/10/2011 12:19:02 AM): who is the physician and your daughter's full name and room number
READER (7/10/2011 12:19:23 AM): you told me you sold "stuffs" to pay for this.
READER (7/10/2011 12:19:38 AM): now u needed money for the car shipping or something
READER (7/10/2011 12:19:46 AM): i am confused
Barry Wales (7/10/2011 12:20:17 AM): I only paid for more oxygen and not the sugery.
Barry Wales (7/10/2011 12:21:04 AM): I don't have it yet and the dr will help me get the money so i could get the car's and makse sure everything is fixed so i can get home to you.
READER (7/10/2011 12:24:33 AM): yesss
Barry Wales (7/10/2011 12:25:30 AM): So what now?
READER (7/10/2011 12:28:24 AM): I have nothing to summate at this point. I guess my writing up there was a waste of time. But I thought it was pretty clearly executed.. I also asked for some proof you live in NY... and why wouldnt you have the physician's name......
READER (7/10/2011 12:28:41 AM): I am kinda insulted about all this
READER (7/10/2011 12:29:21 AM): your accent is Nigerian
READER (7/10/2011 12:29:27 AM): first and foremost
READER (7/10/2011 12:30:41 AM): I have a pretty good idea how this came to be dumped in my lap but I can't prove it so I will keep my thoughts to myself
Barry Wales (7/10/2011 12:32:12 AM): Just don your part and leave the rest to me ok.
READER (7/10/2011 12:32:47 AM): lol
READER (7/10/2011 12:33:43 AM): WHAT
Barry Wales (7/10/2011 12:33:59 AM): I need to get to bed now.
READER (7/10/2011 12:34:03 AM): good night
Barry Wales (7/10/2011 12:34:14 AM): Please don't let me down oka.
Barry Wales (7/10/2011 12:34:25 AM): Kisses and Hugs.
READER (7/10/2011 12:34:37 AM): ye
READER (7/10/2011 12:34:41 AM): good night
Barry Wales (7/10/2011 12:35:06 AM): Will you give me a call after you get it sent?
READER (7/10/2011 12:35:19 AM): please stop hounding me
READER (7/10/2011 12:35:29 AM): i do not appreciate this at alllll
READER (7/10/2011 12:35:44 AM): You must have me mistaken for an idiot
Barry Wales (7/10/2011 12:36:15 AM): Sweet dreams READER.
READER (7/10/2011 12:36:30 AM): right now it will be a nightmare
Wednesday, September 21, 2011
morgan_more35: but to be honest if i have a problem and i ask you for to help with anything will you help?
READER: i cant
morgan_more35: i see people has make you that way right?
READER: for the most part, yes. And the fact that I am having a hard time finding work
READER: and cannot afford to send money to anyone except my son
READER: and bills
morgan_more35: so where is your son
morgan_more35: where in florida
READER: getting ready to enter Police Academy
morgan_more35: oh ok
READER: outside Jacksonville
morgan_more35: so whats your sons name
READER: David Lee
morgan_more35: you chat with him on yahoo?
READER: Are you leaving?
morgan_more35: so you said you are a king of godly woman right?
READER: I love God and Jesus
READER: but I am not a nun
READER: I like beer
READER: and i smoke
morgan_more35: oh you smoke?
READER: havent had a reason to quit, yes
READER: i would for that special person
READER: havent had one
morgan_more35: ok where are you doing
morgan_more35: where are you going
READER: m back
READER: had to use the restroom
READER: i really need to get back to my school work
READER: but i wanted to say hi
morgan_more35: ok thats good
morgan_more35: nice to meet you
READER: yeah. likewise
morgan_more35: i know you will say no
READER: im here
morgan_more35: can you please help with just $100 i am so demn forking hengy here
READER: HEll no
morgan_more35: i am begging you okay
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Monday, September 12, 2011
Thank you for your site! I almost made the biggest mistake of my life. I met this guy on Yahoo messenger - Thomas Mario Metwally - 52 (said he was 49) who know for real - had a son - a CIVIL ENGINEER. He is in Lagos, Nigeria working on a construction contract. He is from Milan Italy, got a visa to the US for 5 years about to expire. Anyway, he was like the answer to my dreams, loving words, wanted to take care of me, had money, wanted to come to Canada, wanted me to help him invest his money, told me how he envisioned our wedding, that he wanted to take me to Paris, France for a honeymoon. I was hooked - totally blown away. He told me about his son and how his wife had died of breast cancer - he had been married 18 years etc.. He told me that on August 16th it was his son's Ben birthday and I shared how I always made birthdays special and ask what he was getting Ben for his birthday. He made it out that he had nothing planned and didn't know what Ben wanted. Why didn't I ask Ben? So we arranged to have Ben on line the next day so I could talk to him. Who knows who I was talking to. Anyway, Ben wanted a notebook computer. I thought it strange that if his father was wealthy why didn't he have one already, but I let it go, so I mentioned it to Thomas. He suggested we go have on it and that he could pay for the whole thing since he had invested all his money in the project and had very little spending money. So I sent him $500. And this is where it started. I had revealed all the bad relationships I had had, that I was independant and a business person, which I am. Which is why when he started telling me about the problem he was having financing the project, I started asking lots of questions. He didn't like this. I even raised the question of him being a scammer since I've heard of them happening and I had started to look things up on the net. I couldn't understand with a construction contract with the government that they would only give you 60% of the money up front and expect the contractor to finance the rest until the job was completed. I know here it is paid in progress payments as to completion, with 10% to 20% held back which is usually the markup. So I started asking questions again. Then he hit me up for $10,000. Well, my suspicions came up, I told him I didn't have the money which I don't, but he pleaded. When I finally said no and told him not to contact me again he said that it was okay, he found the money - he sold some properties and had found someone - a "mr. francis" to finance the rest. So I thought okay, maybe everything was okay. So I started talking to him again. Then 2 nights ago, he tells me "mr. francis" didn't come through, that now he need $15000.00. And to think I actually went to a friend - who trusts me- lied and got the money. It is beside me now, waiting to be wired.But someone, maybe God, was looking out for me because he made a mistake. To try and show how much he loved me he was going to send me a package, what was my address. I gave it to him. Anyway, the package never arrived. Then I found a note on my mail box (I live in an apartment) that a parcel had tried to be delivered but I wasn't home. Please call this number etc. I called and was told that the flowers had gone back to the florist and the delivery company would contact them to redeliver. All yesterday I didn't hear from them. So I called them this morning, and was told that apparently it was a fraud order. Well that got me thinking and nervous again. So I went on line and found this site. The stories are so similar and the guideline you give - where if you answer yes to any of these questions - well I answered yes to almost every one. These guys are good. They really know how to play you - I was only on the dating site for 3 days and he picked me up. I'm giving up dating sites.What I can't understand is how they get the documents to look so real. He sent me a picture of his passport, his american visa document and a copy of a Contract Award Certificate. How would the average person ever be able to tell that they're fake. So the name he used is Thomas Mario Metwally, cell # 234-812-7995227Now of course, if he isn't a scammer, I've lost the man of my dreams.